You Fell for a Romance Scam. Now What?
The person you trusted doesn’t exist. The photos were stolen. The love was fake. And your money is gone.
If you’re reading this, you’re probably feeling a toxic mix of shame, anger, and desperation. Stop blaming yourself. Romance scammers are psychological warfare experts. They exploit human needs for connection and companionship.
You’re not stupid. You’re not naive. You’re human. And now it’s time to fight back.
How Romance Scams Work (The “Pig Butchering” Scam)
The name is graphic but accurate. Here’s the playbook:
Phase 1: The Fattening (Weeks 1-4)
- They contact you on dating apps, social media, or even “wrong number” texts
- They build emotional intimacy quickly
- They share fake personal stories to create trust
- They mirror your interests and values
Phase 2: The Investment Hook (Weeks 4-8)
- Casual mention of crypto “investments”
- They show screenshots of “profits” (fake)
- They encourage small “test” investments
- They celebrate your “wins” to build confidence
Phase 3: The Slaughter (Final Phase)
- They convince you to invest larger amounts
- They create fake “emergencies” requiring more funds
- They disappear or the platform locks your account
- Your money is gone, transferred through multiple wallets
Why Romance Scams Are So Devastating
Unlike other scams, romance scams attack your emotions:
- Trauma bonding: You shared intimate details and emotions
- Betrayal trauma: The “relationship” was completely fake
- Shame and isolation: Victims often hide it from family
- Financial ruin: Many victims lose life savings
According to the FBI, romance scams cost victims over $1 billion in 2023 alone. You’re not alone in this.
Can You Recover Money From a Romance Scam?
Yes, recovery is possible. But it requires expertise, persistence, and acting quickly.
At Bit Remit Ltd, we specialize in romance scam recovery. Here’s how we do it:
Step 1: Blockchain Forensics
We trace your crypto through the blockchain:
- Identify where your funds were sent
- Track movement through wallets and exchanges
- Find “off-ramps” where crypto was converted to fiat
- Build a comprehensive transaction map
Step 2: Exchange Cooperation
Many scammers cash out through exchanges. We:
- File reports with exchanges holding the funds
- Request account freezes (when legally possible)
- Work with compliance teams to identify scammers
Step 3: Legal Action
We support law enforcement efforts:
- Provide detailed forensic reports
- Assist with international legal coordination
- Connect you with specialized crypto lawyers if needed
Real Recovery Case Study
“I met ‘David’ on Hinge. He was charming, attentive, and seemed perfect. After 6 weeks, he mentioned his crypto ‘side business.’ I started with $500, then $5,000, then $25,000. When I tried to withdraw, the platform demanded another $10,000 in ‘fees.’ That’s when I knew.
I was ashamed and suicidal. Bit Remit took my case with compassion, not judgment. They traced my Bitcoin through 12 wallets to an exchange in Singapore. After 4 months of legal work, I recovered $18,000 of my $30,500. It wasn’t everything, but it gave me my life back.” — Anonymous Client, London
What to Do If You’re a Victim
- Stop all contact immediately — Don’t confront them
- Document everything — Screenshots, messages, transaction IDs
- Report to authorities — File with Action Fraud (UK) or FBI IC3 (US)
- Contact a recovery specialist — Time is critical
- Seek emotional support — This trauma is real; therapy helps
Red Flags You Missed (For Next Time)
Learn to spot these warning signs:
- ❌ They can’t video call (always an excuse)
- ❌ They fall in love unusually fast
- ❌ They have an “amazing investment opportunity”
- ❌ They need money for emergencies
- ❌ Their photos look too perfect (reverse image search them)
- ❌ They ask you to move conversations to WhatsApp/Telegram quickly
Why Choose Bit Remit Ltd for Recovery
We’re not just technicians — we understand what you’re going through:
- Compassionate approach: No judgment, only solutions
- No upfront fees: We only get paid when you recover funds
- Proven track record: Millions recovered for romance scam victims
- Global network: We work with exchanges and law enforcement worldwide
- Transparent process: Regular updates on your case
The Bottom Line
Romance scams are devastating, but you’re not powerless. Recovery is possible. Healing is possible. And you don’t have to go through this alone.
At Bit Remit Ltd, we’ve helped hundreds of romance scam victims reclaim their money and their dignity. Contact us today for a free, confidential consultation.
You fell for a scam. That doesn’t define you. How you fight back does.
Learn how to spot scams before they happen or see our full recovery case studies.
Bit Remit Ltd is a UK-registered cryptocurrency recovery company (Company No: 16226194). We specialize in tracing and recovering stolen digital assets from romance scams, investment fraud, and crypto theft. All consultations are confidential and free of charge.
